Thursday, May 27, 2010

The Party Pooper

The guy I was talking to before the 10 whomper had two kids,. usually i don't talk to guys that have kids for a number of different reasons. This guy was really nice, so I let it go. What was I thinking??? While we were talking and getting to know each other better, my mother asked for a list of people i would like to come over to her house for my birthday celebration.. Of course I added him to the list..

A month into everything he asked me when I would be ready for a relationship. We both decided we should get to know each other better. After getting to know him better i realized it would never work. We had too many things that were not a like, and our lives were going in two different directions. So I nicely slowed everything down to darn near a stop. The week before my birthday he calls me and start talking about how much he likes me and how he misses spending time with me. Of course I was still nice to him he didn't do anything to me. I was sure he was talking to other people,so I didn't care about his comments. .

So now it's finally the day of my friend and family birthday get together at my mother's home.The most ridiculous things happen. My one best friend gets lost and on her way to my house she says she sees my other friend who is also the friend of the guy I was talking to, a baby and another girl. After she describes the people better to me, I realize it is the guy I been talking to his child and his baby mama all planning on coming to my mother's house. What the hell???? Who does that??? Who brings their baby mama to the girl who they have been talking to's get together. This fool had the audacity to say I thought it would be okay to bring her.

Lesson learned: Do not talk to people who are not on your level if they are unequally yolked leave it alone. I hate the whole dating thing it whomps.